I do what’s right… or probably better, what I believe is right - for me, for my family, for my business…
Sure, some things are clearer to me than others, but ultimately what makes most sense, makes most sense.
So often I find that people spend so much time factoring, considering what to do - not based on what they know is right, but what they think people will think…
I care what people think… because I care about people.
I consider how people may react… because I am not out to intentionally make anyone angry…
But, I do or I propose to do what makes the most sense.
It makes life so much easier… and efficient.
I don’t propose what people want to hear, unless that is what makes the most sense.
When people ask me for my opinion - I give them MY opinion, not the opinion I think they want to hear. It’s simpler that way.
Why am I sharing this? Because so often we make something that should be otherwise simple, complicated.
I communicate what I am doing WITH CARE & CONCERN & CONSIDERATION for others… because I truly care about people… but, I don’t ALTER what I think is right to do because of what others might think.
BRING your voice & your open mind to the party - and see what happens…
Don’t get lost in the “well if I do A then they are going to say B and then what are we going to do?” Just DO A - if A is the right thing! And, no matter what they say, you tell them you did it because it was the right thing to do!
Sounds crazy simple, because it is!
I see so much energy lost in the “but he (or she) doesn’t agree?”, “what is he / she going to say”…
DO WHAT YOU KNOW IS RIGHT… and communicate it in a considerate and caring way… and keep an open mind, as what you hear may evolve what you deem to be “right” next time…
but stay away from the over-thinking, over-analysis, over-evaluation of what to do…
I do what’s right… or probably better, what I believe is right - for me, for my family, for my business…
Harmony happens in the doing…
And, in the experiencing and navigating and the lessons of the what comes next…
Missed you all -
in harmony!
Nestor